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Jules Fedele's avatar

I say this every time but it is literally like you are in my head! In 2017 when I lost my passion for my corporate career, I remember standing in my kitchen and saying "I feel like I've climbed this ladder and turned around and realised I climbed the wrong one." It can be so destabilising and I felt lost for a long time. Finding people like yourself made me feel less alone on this wild ride of finding an intersection of career and meaning.

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Tobi Ogunnaike's avatar

I renamed my newsletter to "Wandering the Grey" two years ago to explore this theme of forgoing an unconventional path after five years of engineering in Big Tech. The skepticism and the sneers you faced in your journey sound all too familiar. I created a little group with two other post-tech brave souls called "sabbadie hotline" where we share all the ups, the downs, the wins, the worries, but it's a very supportive group, and it helps having people who understand what you're going through. I wish you the best luck!

PS, I've written a lot about this stuff e.g.

1) Unshackling from golden handcuffs: https://www.tobiwrites.com/p/unshackling-myself-from-golden-handcuffs

2) How to design a sabbatical https://every.to/p/how-to-design-a-sabbatical

3) So you're a writer now?: https://www.tobiwrites.com/p/so-youre-a-writer-now

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